Talkback: Hippie by Jessica Cole-Hodgkinson

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From:	Chris	2001-02-26 18:19:31
Subject:	Hippy
Comment:	It's not what's outside, Mother tells me, but what's inside.
From:	beautiful hippie	2001-08-29 04:02:59
Subject:	beautiful hippie
Comment:	a big butt is hippy a big heart is hippie
From:	a guy	2001-09-08 22:45:01
Subject:	wide hips
Comment:	wide hips with slender legs are absolutely the all time best. This configuration of the female human results in the appearance of a gap between the legs where they attach to the body. This is highly prized by the males of the species. At least by me and some other guys I know
From:	wasabi	2001-10-16 14:54:20
Subject:	Hippies
Comment:	Very nice, chestnutt. I love your hips, no worries you are gorgeous. ;)
From:	Hung-Piece	2001-11-03 01:14:59
Subject:	stolen identity
Comment:	I believe that you have stolen my groups name. Hippies had nothing to do with hips. Well other than the fact that they like hips. Hippies are about free love, drugs, and rock and roll, saving the enviornment and ending war. However, I can tell you that many hippies had hips. Large beautifull hips. Of course others had tiny skinny beautifull hips. But among otherthings hippies were more concened about what was on the inside of a person. And Chestnutt is solid gold.
From:	Tony	2001-12-29 16:28:24
Subject:	Wide hips on women
Comment:	I find it a sexual turn on when women have large wide hips and a smaller waist. I have a mistress with 62 inch hips and a size 30 waist. She's virtually all ass and hips. I carried on a sexual relationship with a coworker and she wieghed 335 lbs and had 70 inch hips. The bigger the better. Nothing wrong with a pair of big wide hips. I love 'em.
From:	steph	2002-02-14 14:02:54
Subject:	my hips
Comment:	Hey, I'm a 21 year old female, and I have been struggling with my hips forever. I really hate how I look. I have a small frame everywhere except for my hips, so they are really noticable and there is nothing that I can do to help it, I excercise 6 days a week and always watch my diet. I have long legs, a very small waist, tapered thighs and wide hips. I guess I'm at the best I can ever look now and I still can not accept myself. I have had many humiliating experiences. Once in high school before I was so self concious, I had to wear a clingy black dress for a play I was in, after the play, many guys came up to me and told me I looked great. But, when I walked into the lockerroom after my performance, a classmate shouted out 'Ew look at her, she's all ass and hips, nothing else!' Then there was a huge gale of laughter. People tell me I'm beautiful and I was even recruited to go to modeling school when I was about 17. I realize that I look good for the body that I was born with, but I really don't find my body to be attractive. I think I look kind of freakish. It would be nice if the media portrayed women like me for as beautiful and desirous for once. My boyfriend tells me I have a 'unique body', he means it as a compliment, but any reference at all to the way I am built makes me feel really bad about myself.
From:	Rich	2003-02-28 14:00:48
Subject:	answer my hips
Comment:	the only people that were givin ya a bad time were --female-=--and they dont know what is attractive to a male. tits on a boys butt isnt attractive--unless ya got somethin in yer closet. if ya know what I mean. You sound absolutely great. define your self by what --is attractive to men not what the girls with boys butt think.
From:	no need to know	2003-09-10 21:05:59
Subject:	hips
Comment:	I am a 13 year old in junior high. I hate my hips. I wish they were small and slender. No matter how I try to hide them, you can tell. It is hard living with them because all my friends are skiny and are like racist against fat people. I am not fat though. My body is really petite. I wear sizes 0-5 in jeans. I have a small stomach, long but skinny legs, and all that. Since I am so petite, my hips really stand out. I have been called so many things. I am so sick of it. I can never seem pleased with my body.
From:	Devlin	2003-10-28 13:31:22
Subject:	big hipps are a good thing
Comment:	All you girls out there with big hips dont have any thing to worry about, my ex-girl friend had big hips and i thougt she was very attravctive but shortly after we stoped seeing each other she got a new boy friend and lost a little bit of wieght, with these few pound she lost her hips and now when i see her i dont find as attractive as I did when we where going out. So all you girls with big hips dont worry about it because im sure there are alot of men out there besides me who like big hips. peace and love, Devlin
From:	Mark	2003-12-26 17:42:50
Subject:	large hips
Comment:	It is sad to see girls say how unhappy they are with their bodies, because everything is small with the exception of their hips. I think a girl with large hips and a small waist is incredibly sexy! Don't be ashamed/embarrassed. Many young guys like skinny girls with small hips. As we get older we spread out more. Both guys and girls don't stay 18 forever. As we age, we find beauty out there beyond the cover of newstand magazines. Take it from a 35 year old guy, big hips are not something that should bring you down. I know there are many people out there who find them very attractive!
From:	Ashtyn	2004-02-07 01:58:43
Subject:	wide hips
Comment:	My body is so retarded! I am so unproportioned. I am skinny, I have small boobs, a small waist, medium size butt but WIDE hips. I think it is disgusting and my brother says it is so now I am so self concious about what guys think. What if they all think the same as him? No one will like them so neither do I.
From:	Fran Velez	2004-04-19 14:59:10
Subject:	Hips Make My Day!
Comment:	Since I was a teenager, I was always attracted to big hipped women. Now in my 40's, I can get it up only with big hipped women. There is a eroticism associated with women with big hips. I'm not the only one. There are legions of us men who love big hipped women. Maybe tastes changes when it comes to fashions, styles and social norms but there will always be men who will go after nothing but big hipped women.
From:	Christine S	2004-06-17 09:36:07
Subject:	hips!
Comment:	I was up late, couldn't sleep and didn't know what to do with myself so I decided to put in a search on the internet for clothing for wide hips and I got this site! I was curious about the person everyone was talking to and scrolled down to see a post by Steph. You sound alot like me, Steph. I am very small framed everywhere except my hip bones (and my boobs)! I am alot older than you and have also had the same issues with my body. I am 5'10' and had also been told the same things you had concerning modelling when I was younger and my body being 'unique'. I found out that the problem for me are two bones called iliac crests - they are wider than normal and mine protrude because I am quite thin. There is nothing you can do except accept yourself and alter your proportions by using protein powders and doing high weight, low rep exercises to increase your upper body. That will give you more of an hourglass figure-also increase your calf muscles a bit as that helps to proportion your body. I have a large bust which helped to distract but I know how you feel - just work on proportion and self acceptance and you'll be ok.
From:	Tara	2004-08-01 15:23:21
Subject:	my body is gross!
Comment:	i'm 13 years old and going into 8th grade. my body is soooo unproportioned. i take a 12 pant size, and a 14 slim with a belt. my shoe size is a 9. i have to wear my pants below my hips because they are sooo huge. i have absolutely no breasts because they havent even started growing yet. im barely 5 feet tall and i weigh 83 pounds. my best friend, who is younger than me, takes a size 5 in pants, has a size B bra, and is 5'4 and 105 pounds. shes perfect. i want to be like her!! my post is kind of like ashtyn. everything in my post is true, somebody email me if you feel my pain!:(
From:	James	2004-08-05 18:00:02
Subject:	Hips reinforce life.
Comment:	Hips are what I agree with. I love'em. In fact I believe that a nation can be judge by how well it treats its hippy women. I started feeling this way years ago. For as far back as I can remember I have though that women with small waist and wide hips were simply more attractive. With the exception of my latest love interest (I am with her for additional reasons) I have loved only big hip women. I would like to start a movement in support of ladies who don't like their hips and need constant encouragement. Who's with me. Lets get started. Email me at jmswhitehead@netscape.net. Put 'I am with you Jim' in the subject line.
From:	lara	2004-08-14 16:07:13
Subject:	hips
Comment:	i hate having bigs hips its awful i feel out of proportion and i bang into stuff all the time my measurments are 36-28-44 its gross
From:	Jessica Cole-Hodgkinson	2004-09-16 09:23:17
Subject:	My Wee Article
Comment:	Thank you, everyone. It has been a pleasure to come back and find all these nifty responses to one of my favorite columns. I could only wish that the feminine voices I've read sounded happier with their bodies -- may I suggest a brief perusal of art through the ages -- I promise you that whatever you look like, it has been the 'Ideal' at one point or another. If that doesn't work, try thinking of it this way -- your genes came down to you to because some masculine fellow in your family tree looked at a woman who looked like you and went 'yeah, she's hot!' I assure you that if 'she' was hot, so are you :)
From:	Ray	2004-11-09 14:12:01
Subject:	Women with wide hips
Comment:	Ever since I was a teenager I found women with wider hips relative to the rest of their body totally erotic. Now that I am older, I'm 54, I am only totally turned on by that type of woman. Strange as it sounds to females bombarded by what the fashion and media industry tells them, many of us older males love a woman that is heavy in the legs, wide in the hips, has a potruding tummy and would you believe cellulite on her thighs. Yes some of us are turned on by female cellulite. So to all you pear shaped women out there you do have many advantages over your slimmer not so well shaped sisters.
From:	Ray	2004-11-10 15:44:17
Subject:	Lara's Comment
Comment:	Your body is not gross it's truly feminine and lovely. Don't worry, the men who are passionate about your style of hips will appreciate and desire you with a greater intensity that never wanes.
From:	linda	2004-11-12 20:33:19
Subject:	hey u hippies
Comment:	I have big hips as well. The rest of my body is so small i just have these big hips. I hate them so much i just wish my body was proportioned. Is there any surgery i can get to just cut the damn things off?! People tell me i'm pretty but all are see are these stupid hips, they make me so paranoid and self conscious about how i look. I hate being next to my friends with their NORMAL sized hips, i just hate it so much. Ok sorry for boring you all!! Oh but i was happy when i read on here other people have the same problem!!!! I am not alone!! Have a nice night!
From:	James	2004-12-30 04:40:12
Subject:	Hips or...?
Comment:	I guess I shouldn't be surprised at all the admittedly beautiful young women who hate their bodies. It sounds exactly why young women hate their big breasts, or...anything that makes them look different from the average girl they have as friends. It doesn't seem to matter how attractive a man finds a woman, if she is obsessed at fitting in with the average girls, she will never be happy. Implants - same thing. I gotta look average or I'm a freak. Thanks television! Thanks PR industry!
From:		2005-01-27 01:47:14
Subject:
Comment:	i'm 14 years old, i'm 5-6...long legs.. my upper body is so skinny u can practically see my ribs...i have small boobs and a flat ass..but i have really wide hips..and a little fat aroudn my stomach area..my wide hips cause me to have love handles in just about everythign i wear and i'm very self-concoious about my body because of hips
From:	gelfling	2005-03-02 01:30:43
Subject:	ugh hips
Comment:	To all you chicks out there who complain about your hips, I hear ya. I've struggled with my hips since I was 14 (almost 12 years). I'm pretty slim (5'6', 125lbs),but my hips take up so much material that I have to buy my pants in a 'tall' or 'long' otherwise they'd be too short. (If I can find pants that fit at all) I think I might actually like my hips if I had a butt. Try to imagine a skinny girl with huge hips and no ass....that's me. I am constantly ridiculed at work. My co-workers' favorite method of torture is to refer to my shape as a 'fooled ya!' This means that when they're walking toward me they think I have a nice shape because of my hips until they walk past me, turn around and see that I have no butt. Fooled ya! How horrible is that?? Clothes shopping is very detrimental as well. I often find a nice pair of pants that sit relatively low on the hips and fit well...until I try to button them. It just doesn't happen. So, more often than not I am forced to buy pants that are too big and I end up looking dumpy. I just want to say thank you to all the men who find this big-hipped woman thing attractive, but it's not easy. It may be nice to look at in some cases, but try to put yourselves in our shoes....or rather pants.
From:	Tei_opiti	2005-04-30 00:38:47
Subject:	Wide hips are good
Comment:	I love wide hips and a small waist. You shouldn't let them get you down.
From:	Ashley	2005-05-26 05:47:30
Subject:	Hips of cousre...
Comment:	You would think that there would be more clothes for girls with 'unique' shapes, but they don't. I'm one with an 'unique' shape. I have been that way ever sense I can remember. I think the last time I wore shorts was sixth grade. I hate my figure. I'm 18 years old, 110 pounds, 5'5' with very small boobs, I'm not fat but because my butt is so big my stomach sticks out weird, my butt sags, is very wide, and sticks out forever, my hips knock everything down, my thighs... there is no hope there either ... I hate looking at myself in the mirror, naked or clothed. I just don't see how some guys get turned on about big hips. All it is, is more bone then we were hoping for when we were born.
From:	sonia	2005-08-03 18:32:59
Subject:	my hips are attention grabbers!
Comment:	I love my hips, eventhough they are a quite wide. I measure 36c 28 42. Especially when I wear short skirts or jeans, my hips stand out and men all around gaze at it as if they have never seen one before. And even at my office, men keep on peeping from various places to get a glimpse of my hips. I feel very much aroused by all this. So my dear sisters with wide hips, please don't feel ashamed of your wide mid section, nature has given you such a curvy body, so flaunt it and you will see heads turning towards your that hotspot,most men usally love....to grab! Sonia
From:	Irish Rover	2005-08-16 04:37:57
Subject:	Nice Hips
Comment:	Ladies, don't freak out over your hips, no matter how many times a man tells you he wants you to be a perky breasted, skinny waisted, supermodel, all men are mentally wired be attracted to women with wide hips, a large(not necassarily perky) bust, and a healthy amount of meat on her bones. Wide hips represent the ability to safely birth a large healthy child, because from the dawn of man all the way to the 1600s women very frequently died during childbirth. A large bust represents a womens ability to nourish her children. Finally, a nice meaty (not obese) body represents good health and virility. There are no two ways about it, our sole purpose on this planet (biologically, not religously or spiritully) is to procreate, to perpetuate our genes, and when choosing a mate, we look for a mate that we see as having the 'best' genes, healthy, no physical disorders or weaknesses, the ability to not only survive, but thrive.A Man may THINK he is attracted to the freakishly skinny, diseased-looking, anorexic supermodels, but in the back of his mind, when he sees that big, healthy, hippy girl walking down the street shaking what the good lord blessed her with, he thinks, way back in that primal part of the brain, 'My God, is she beautiful.'
From:	hi	2005-09-01 17:25:00
Subject:	normal hips
Comment:	it was so hard to read all these comments about girls with big hips, small wasits, and small boobs. I would be so happy if that was my body. but i carry more wieght on the top of me, i wear size 5 pants. i wish i had more fat on my legs. i dont even wear jeans tight cause i dont want my legs to look so darn skinny. then i have normal sized hips and a very small butt. i feel self conscious because i feel like there is nothing i have that guys like...hips, a but, a very visible waist. and i cant even wear tight shirts cause i have some belly fat. i am 5'4' 115 lbs. i always think if i loose weight i will loose my belly fat and some of my boobs. i wear a B cup but the rest of my body is a small frame so they look out of proportion. i just wish i could wear tight shirts and have a small upper body. So all you girls with hips and small waists and boobs just know that there are a lot of girls who are jelous of your form. I dont think anyone in this world is completely happy with there body. we always want the opposite of what we have.
From:	Mexican girl	2005-09-24 02:45:12
Subject:	Hippie girls
Comment:	Hey girls! I can see that some of you dislike your hippie bodies. I do understand you. I am a hippie myself. I am 5'11, but I'm far from looking like a Chanel runway model. My top size is 12 or 14, but my bottom size is 16 the smallest. I don't have a 1-inch-of-diametre waist, but, in proportion, it does look small. I have a huge butt, and really wide hips. Also, I have fat thighs. You know? I do like my shape. I mean, of course I do hate fat thighs and cellulite, but I think that when I get results from my diet I'll love it. I know fads aren't made for us, but I'm proud of carrying my hippie Caribbean body. Greetings to all, be proud of yourselves!
From:	Anonymous	2005-09-27 17:52:31
Subject:	Men
Comment:	All u girls! Think of how it is to be a man with wide hips. That's not very funny I can tell u.
From:	ashley	2006-01-07 22:57:57
Subject:	LOVE HANDLES.
Comment:	im 14, a freshemen at highschool. i have long skinny legs, everything else on my body is pretty skinny too, but i have pretty big love handles. and i don't know how to get rid of them. i really need someone to tell me how to get rid of them. my body looks pretty weird with everything else being skinny besides my upper body. so someone help me with it, please?
From:	eadon	2006-01-08 08:22:31
Subject:	hips and ass part 1
Comment:	I am eadon - owner of the website. This guest article is written by Jessica, a friend of mine. Firstly, my own body is not perfect. I have had a bit of a beer belly, not much, but a bit, all my life. Tried dieting seriously about 3 times. Lost weight, but never got that 6 pack belly :) Dieting made me feel miserable and unhappy. Afer a month or two I stopped dieting. Put the lost weight on again, until I returned to my natural weight, which is very slightly overweight by media standards. Then stablised again.
From:	eadon	2006-01-08 08:23:05
Subject:	part 2
Comment:	Well, what I'm trying to say is, ignore the media if you can. Be a great person on the inside, and you will be considered beautiful by those that know you. A cliche I know, but timelessly true, but it is the only strategy that works in the long term! I know that you want better than this, a silver bullet. I can't help! And it is distressing that everyone obsesses about their bodies. I sometimes blame clothes for our unhappiness and angst. If everyone were naked much of the time in public, then most of us would soon stop obsessing about our bodies, as our shyness would wear off.
From:	eadon	2006-01-08 08:23:30
Subject:	part 3
Comment:	By the way, everyone has different taste in bodies. My own taste is that women that are slightly wobbly, women that have a bit of shape to them, women that are not obese, but definitely not thin/slim either, are gorgeous. It doesn't matter what their shape, plumpish is lovely. But that is just me. Regarding hips, there is nothing like a round plump arse. Big is gorgeous. The women in movies and magazines are horribly skinny. Muscle without fat is not sexy, and a lack of muscle without fat even less sexy in a woman. A well toned woman with fat is beautiful. A nice distribution of fat is adorable, but really huge fast food/McDonalds obese fatties are, I am afraid, relatively unattractive to me, though not to everyone. You massive fatties DO need to stop eating junk. Again, just my opinion. However, ultimately personality wins over appearance in relationships. A lousy personality mounted in a gorgeous body will always be revolting after the first impressions are faded, so only shallow lust remains at best! And as for the media ideal of the 'perfect' body - only 1% can ever attain such a freak body (as of 2005), and that skinny body is NOT sexy at all. And almost certainly not conducive to being healthy when it comes to having kids!
From:	Nicole	2006-02-10 03:13:07
Subject:	wide hipped teenager
Comment:	I'm nearly 16 years old and i have had wide hips since about the age of 13. I'm tall, have big boobs, long legs, and a sort of flat stomach but wide hips. My friends tell me it is the ideal womanly figure and guys love it but it's hard to accept when all my friends basically have no hips. My boyfriend says he loves my shape but all i can think about is how celebrities look. Why is it that wide hips are not so common? I tried losing weight, thinking my hips will look smaller. I suceeded in losing just over 6kg but i realised that was kind of stupid because i didn't need to lose weight and therefore my hips just look wider because i am now skinnier. It would be cool if there was hip toning excercises.... I also realised people with wide hips look like that have love handles but if that could just be toned up then they could love their hips. I think this site has helped me accept my hips more. Thankyou to al the people that posted a comment!
From:	Craig	2006-06-17 08:09:51
Subject:	hips
Comment:	Wide hips and small waist is a HOT combo. If you have this, email me at cotronix@aol.com so I can praise you.
From:	Dave	2006-07-09 20:43:39
Subject:	Hips.
Comment:	It is distressing to read about young women hating their bodies for any reason(previous comments), but to do so because you are a natural healthy woman is sad. Accept yourself for who you are and don't worry about celebrities and media. That whole world is bullshit, just ask Fiona. A healthy woman with wide hips is the most attractive thing in the world to me. It is superficial, but it I have never been attracted to the fashion models or hollywood actresses. I found this sight because I was googling wide hips. I was trying to find info to back up what I told my sister the other day: Any man who doesn't like hips on a woman is either not interested in the adult opposite sex, or dumb enough to allow others to tell him what he is attracted to. Neither option is desirable.
From:	paul	2006-10-29 03:39:22
Subject:	hips
Comment:	The men who pick those fashion models with 8-year-old-boy hips are gay. I used to like small hips until I was about 21-22, and then I started loving large hip/butt women. I think there are not enough of those around. Girls, stop dieting to reduce your hips. Exercise your butt to get a more balanced look. Belly fat is disgusting, fat on hips/thigh/butt is gorgeous. Grow up you little girls. Stop asking your little bro for opinions. Ask a real man.
From:	Anthony	2007-05-26 15:01:56
Subject:	Wide Hips
Comment:	You'll find out more men like wide hips all the time! I'm one of them........smile Look me up some time! Don't get so down on yourself....
From:	Daikatanox	2007-07-23 22:27:41
Subject:	Wide Hips
Comment:	Thin and anorexic women can brag about their bodies all day long. But I think it is just natural for a woman to have wide hips. I, personally, would only be attracted to women with wide hips. I define wide hips to be hips that are relatively wide to the rest of their bodies (especially shoulder and waist). Skinny girls with shoulders (and waist obviously) narrower than their hips are what turned me on the most. And don't get me wrong, I don't necessarily like fat girls, as you can always work out to lose weight, but you can't ever reduce the width of your iliac crest.
From:	k	2007-08-15 23:05:44
Subject:	big hips
Comment:	hey, im a 19 yr old female with big boobs and wider hips, im always thinkin of them (my hips), everytime i get dressed i look in the mirror and think they r big but my partner loves them, try turnin the negative 'my hips are big' into a positive 'im not straight all the way down im curvy and men like it'.
From:	lil lisa	2008-09-02 17:58:19
Subject:	i wish mine were big
Comment:	u r sooooo lucky my hips are a tiny 30 inch and im 14 !!! i can tell theve got bigger but not that much lol i wish my waist was bigger too because im a size 0 but i have to wear my pants at my hips lol i hate it sooo much and cant put on weight once i actualy ate 3 packets of crisps a day for 1 month and i never put on weight!!! i wish i were ur size
From:	Alex	2009-01-23 22:40:09
Subject:	Big hips
Comment:	Big hips on a slim girl are extremely sexy to guys not to mention it makes childbirth easier so 'Yay!' for big hips.
From:	rob	2009-04-03 14:36:15
Subject:	wide hips
Comment:	I think that a lot of women nowadays are extremely shapely but the reason for this is because they are carrying too much fat around their waists and hips and thighs-My wife is very slim and she does have slender tight legs and good calf muscles,but when she got out of the bath the other day to dry her hair,her rounded belly absolutely wobbled like a jelly from side to side,I was shocked-I t is just her belly she needs to tone up,no muscle there,its all jelly
From:	skybot	2009-05-07 23:54:39
Subject:	wide hips
Comment:	Hi folks, blows me away to see so many women so down on themselves! Give yourselves a break! You're just you! Screw the magazine covers and models..they are not real people. You are! You're the real deal. Don't compare yourselves with the boyish figures, they're fine too of course since they are themselves as well. And while not forgetting that what really counts is the inside...hippy women *ROCK* when it comes to sensual. My god...the way a skirt hangs from a lady graced with wide hips, nothing compares. Nothing. Goddess of creation comes to mind. Plain old smoking hot, white hot wow. No offense to anyone else, and everyone has their preferences, and people are people, but for my money and a lot of other guys I know, you wide hip lasses are the bees knees. Chin up. Cut yourself some slack. We appreciate you, appreciate yourself! best regards.
From:	Rayna	2009-05-09 09:47:52
Subject:	Appearance
Comment:	I hate the way I look. I have DD breasts, and I am only 16, and then I have a ghetto booty and wide hips with a 24 waist and these skinny little arms and legs. It is just so unnatural looking and I feel like I am going to snap my spine with my boobs whenever I go jogging. I really want to get a reduction. How much are they? It is just really weird looking cause I am 5'9 with these long skinny legs and then it just becomes a huge ass and a short torso and boobs. And just today at school a guy told me that I look like an alien cause I have these huge eyes and lips that just take over my face. Sometimes I just want to hide in my room and break all the mirrors so I won't ever have to look at myself or feel other peoples eyes on me and worry what they are thinking.
From:	Katherine	2009-05-09 10:30:02
Subject:	Hippie
Comment:	I really wanted to thank a lot of the guys who commented on this because it is always nice to hear that someone may find you attractive. For anyone who is interested go and see America the Beautiful, it is an amazing movie about body image and eating disorders and media. So many girls I know have eating disorders and all the girls I know hate something about their appearance, it is just depressing because they have an idea of what is beautiful and it is everything they aren't when others may see them as gorgeous the way they are naturally. I am in the same boat as a lot of others. I used to be really into dance, but I got so depressed with trying to fit the body image that just wasn't possible for me that I had to quit. It can be hard but we all have to embrace ourselves for who we are. I am 5'6 115lbs with wide hips a big butt and thighs and a flat chest. I have always had a hard time with my body image but I am starting to come to terms with it. I wear a lot of high waisted skirts that flare out so that it hides my hips and high heels so that I look like I have longer legs. It can also help if you belt dresses at the narrowest part of your waist. For flat chested people, if you are desperate there are always push up bras and those can do amazing things. Also doing push ups can actually make you boobs look bigger. But most importantly don't diet just eat healthy foods in good proportions and embrace yourself. When people make rude comments you need to keep confidence because there is so much about our appearance that we can't change and so we just have to focus on or thin waist and start to see our hips as a good thing, cause looking at the other comments guys seem to like them!

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